SHOULD I GO BACK TO HIM OR TO STAND ON MY WORDS

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Dimma is presently in a relationship and confused at the same time. It all started when she had a misunderstanding with her fiance on 22nd June 2019 which was later settled but what she experiences presently is too complicated for easy decision. Listen to her.

The first of it was when a lady sent  a text to my fiance requesting for money to buy her provisions. Which after seeing this, I confronted him demanding an explanation on this but they were no genuine response coming forth and as a result of this, I had to go back to my house to cool of the tension because it was so hard for me to bear.
       After this scenario, I had to wave all this in past and decided to pay him a surprise visit again and guess what I saw?  On that day when I arrived, I decided to unpack my clothes by putting them in the wardrobe and  mistakenly, I found a girls cloth in my fiance house which I know strongly was not mine. To cut the story short, I had to call off the relationship and continue a new life. But ever since that day I left the house, my fiance has never stopped calling me to come back and also asking for my forgiveness.
            As it  stands now friends, I am confused whether to go back to him or to stand by my words though I still love him so dearly but I am scared of the future.
              My second question is, Am I really the cause of my problem?

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2 thoughts on “SHOULD I GO BACK TO HIM OR TO STAND ON MY WORDS

  1. Dimma, you must have to build on Respect. Why would you check his phone? Did he give you permission to check his phone? Well, I am glad you discovered what you did not expect. This will build you stronger or tear you apart or more importantly, know the person you are going to share the rest of your life with. Secondly, I usually plead with young girls not to go sleep over some nights with their so called husbands to be until they are fully married in church.
    Try to forgive him as he pleads to be forgiven since you said you still love him. But may I seriously warn you to get ready for more surprises when you finally get married. Such men have learned very bad habits and are very hard to quit. If you are ready for frequent heart broken and your body can take it, then go ahead and marry him. If not ready for such, which you exhibited by leaving him at the initial stage, then find your way out and pray to God you find someone that values RESPECT and TRUST .

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